What tools help us to understand the way we lead?

 Over the years, I’ve used a number of tools to help me understand my style of leadership. I have shared these with hundreds of clergy persons. You may wish to access valuable insights from these tools. I start this series of blogs with a tool used extensively over the past 40 years by Episcopal Clergy and Lay leaders.

The MBTI (Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator) was developed over four decades ago and is based on Jungian Psychology.  I do not know how extensively it is used today but back in the 90s almost all our clergy knew their own MBTI type. This tool uses four dynamics that are measured on a scale for each person. The dynamics are:

    Extrovert (E) - Introvert (I)

    Intuitive (N) - Sensing (S)

    Thinking (T) - Feeling (F)

    Judging (J) - Perceiving (P)

There is extensive material available on the MBTI types and the test is readily available on the Internet. I first learned in the 80s that I am an INFP. Then as a parish priest, I learned the hard way the need I have to protect my introverted side. This understanding has continued to be valuable throughout my ministry.

When it comes to leadership, the MBTI identifies three main types of leaders: NFs, NTs, and SJs. Some teachers distinguish between STJs and SFJs.  I have administered the MBTI to over 500 Episcopal clergy, and the majority of those I tested were Intuitive NFs or NTs. Most of our parishioners like most of the American population are SJs. I like to say that we NFs and NTs bring them meaning and insight.

Many large church rectors I have known were ESTJs. This is the classic profile of a leader with administrative skills. It was Bishop Payne’s profile. He was the best organized leader that I have ever known and also the best delegator too. Such leaders’ strong, clear, non-anxious, extroverted responses to emotional-filled individuals and situations are received as caring which they are. In a clergy group once, an ESTJ leader of a large congregation shared how he deals with people who are unhappy. He gave us this example.

    A parishioner had recently approached him after the early service and said, “I really miss the Old             Prayer Book. Why can’t we use it sometime?”  We NFs and NTs in the room we amazed with his         response. We would have made some attempt to tell why the newer one is better. He told us, “I just         gave her a hug and said, “change is hard, I know.” 

I found it helpful to know that the ENFJ profile is the ideal one for a parish with an attendance of 150 or less. Although I am an NF, I learned how to be more of an ENF on Sunday mornings. A clergy friend visited my parish, observed me, and stopped in my tracks with this feedback. “Kevin, stop telling people you are an introvert and stop acting that way on Sunday. Go to the door and greet people as they arrive. Trust me, it will help you.” And it did.  As an introvert, it was difficult for me to greet people at the door at the end of a service. He suggested that I meet them at the door at the beginning of the service when I was less emotionally tired. I would still arrive home on Sunday afternoon and need a nap, but my members found me more personable and interactive meeting them before the service started.

Unlike me, my favorite ENFJ clergy friend would make a few visits with parishioners on the way home or visit his hospitalized members. I found that amazing. Many people who have heard me preach believe wrongly that I am a strong extrovert. I am driven to preach as an NF to communicate a message that connected on both a feeling and intellectual and feeling level. So, I appear to them like an extrovert. They are confused at times when they interact with me when I am my normal introverted self. Many times, they would ask me if I was okay. I learned to smile and give them a hug. Thank God we can learn from other types.

When I was called from a large and growing pastoral church to a program sized one, I immediately felt more at home. I had a team to work with and I delegated to my staff. I gave up the expectation to know everyone and gave my emotional energy to my lay leaders. I supported them and consequently, all went well.

I gave these examples to show you how to apply insight from the MBTI. What you should never do is use your profile as an excuse. People do not care what their rector’s profile is. As John Maxwell has famously repeated, “People don’t care what you know till they know that you care.” Even an NT or STJ can learn the tools of emotionally connecting with people.

In recent years, the MBTI has been criticized because much of the teaching and application that Elizabeth Meyers shared was based more on her strong intuitive nature rather than research. Whether intuition or research based, the fact is that using this tool has afforded many of us valuable insights about ourselves and others. I think MBTI’s greatest strength is for the leader to understand one’s own psyche. I do not use this tool for team building or understanding how people can lead better. I use it to help leaders understand and accept themselves better and to understand how they process information that they will use as a leader. I also use it to underscore that many people do not process information or experience the same way we do.

In my next blog, I will share two other tools I have used to help ordained leaders.

Leaders and Leadership #6: Agency and Priesthood

In my last blog, I shared my 10-80-10 principle. I discussed the first “10” representing the Natural or Instinctual Leader and why many times they are unteachable. My additional comment is that even an instinctual leader can commit to being a life-long learner.

In this blog, I want to look at the “other 10” and who this represents. This I call Agency and this topic will lead us to our next blog about an issue that effects all clergy leaders and is underestimated in our development. This is Habit.

To get at Agency, let me start with some experiences that I had working with clergy in the Diocese of Texas. That diocese is large both demographically and geographically. Because of this, many clergy there spent almost all their ministry within the diocese. This also means that we had information from each of their parishes during their tenures. This was significant because “past performance is the best indicator of future behavior” as many managers know.

In several situations, clergy were struggling in leading their congregations and we found that they had a history of leading congregations into decline. This sometimes led to conflict with the lay leadership. Unlike previous administrations, and sadly a widespread practice at that time, such conflict would be resolved by the diocese simply moving them to another parish. We found a better way. This was to use their history to show them the need for a re-evaluation of their leadership. We used the Clergy Development Center, an ecumenical ministry, that helped pastors understand themselves better and to apply this to future ministry.

I was the point person in these interventions and was the go-between the clergy and the Center. During this process, I learned that a predictable pushback to receiving this re-evaluation was “What would I do if they tell me that I shouldn’t be a priest?” What I would say was that this is not the purpose of the re-evaluation. The task of the Center is to help you understand how and where you would work more effectively. In several situations, this led dramatically to a significant change for the clergy and introduced me to what the Center called Agency.

Here is what they meant. For some clergy, the parish is a frustrating and complex place. They arrive and discover that ministry in a congregation involves more than they expected. They wanted to be an agent with a manual and instructions on how to celebrate communion or how to make hospital visits, or how to take communion to homebound people. There are many clergy who are good at these tasks and act as agents of the Sacraments, pastoral care, and/or spiritual direction. When the boundaries and the tasks assigned are clear and there is a structure provided for them, they do just fine. 

There are places where this happens better than in a parish. Take, for example, a hospital visit. Hospitals have very regimented schedules. If you arrive too early to give communion, the patients are busy being fed, clothed, cleaned, and given treatments such as X-rays and/or tests. A minister needs to adjust to this and come at a more convenient time. If surgery is scheduled for early morning, then the best time to come is the night before surgery. Notice how the institution creates structure, and if you learn and follow it, you can function well.

Parish ministry has some of this structure with Sunday and weekday services, regularly scheduled vestry meetings, etc., but what is a clergy person to do on Monday mornings or Wednesday afternoons? Much of parish life is unstructured. In fact, clergy must learn to self-structure in a mostly open system with little supervision and direction. These skills are mostly leadership skills and doing them in order to help the whole community accomplish its purposes and goals is what leadership is about.

In the interventions that I mentioned above, the Center helped the priest understand that priesthood for them meant being an agent and the best places for that were chaplaincies in institutions like hospital, schools, and the military. In each situation, we helped them transition to such a ministry, and in EVERY case they did well. Some clergy with this view of priesthood find this truth by accident.

In summary, all ministry involves some Agency, but ministry in a congregation where that priest is the only ordained person has little of this. If a priest enters expecting all ministry in a congregation to be agency, problems quickly arise. This creates a void in ordained leadership, and moving to another parish never resolves the problem.

What all this shows us is that Agency may be ministry but is not leadership! It is a function or a task which can have great meaning, and some clergy thrive on this. However, the openness of leadership in a community has its own demands for self-structure (discipline) and such areas as vision casting, goal setting, and creating strategy. For ordained leaders, as professionals in the best sense of that word, we “must attend,” meaning function as an agent, but for leaders this is also an opportunity to open doors for relationships and influence. Agency is seldom for a leader an end in itself.

This whole topic leads us to the important issues of self-disciple and habits. In my next blog, I will explore the habits of ministry and leadership further and particularly how healthy ones can empower us, and bad habits can hinder us as leaders in our effectiveness. And as a bonus, you will learn why it is so hard to help clergy become more effective after the age of 55! 

Looking More Closely at Leaders Post#5

How Clergy Learn to Lead: Part 1 - The Natural or Instinctual Leaders

In this section of my series on Leaders and Leadership in the Community of Faith, I look more directly at clergy as leaders by addressing such topics as different types of leaders, leadership styles, and the formation and growth of clergy leaders. I will also be posting a blog on what I look for in a good clergy leader. To get into this topic, I will first share with you what I call the 10-80-10 Principle.

This general rule is based on years of observations while teaching leadership to clergy. The first for me was at The Leadership Training Institute at Evergreen. The second was my nine years as Canon for Mission and Congregational Development which, at its core, was leadership development. Following these experiences is what I observed while doing seminars and consulting with clergy.  which I still do. What I observed is that current clergy can be divided into three groups. (Note that these are intuitive guesses)

1.    10% are what I call “Natural or Instinctual Leaders.”

2.    About 80%, I call “Teachable Leaders.”

3.    The third 10%, I call “Agents or Chaplains.”

In In this blog the first group addressed is Natural Leaders or Instinctual for two reasons. First, they are often held up by themselves and others as the “real” leaders. Second, they dominate much of the discussion today about leadership both in and outside the Church.

     This is the way I would describe the Natural Leader. They are mostly intuitive guessers who tend to be dynamic, often charismatic, inspirational, and successful. The majority that I have known are primarily unteachable   

      If you go to Amazon and search for books on leadership, you will find that almost 50% of the thousands of books on leadership are written by one of these leaders or by a fan of one of these leaders. This is as true about clergy as well as the leaders of other organizations, businesses, and institutions. These books follow a simple premise. It is “I was a successful leader. The proof is that I built a successful, large organization. If you want to be a great leader, you should buy this book, do what I did, lead with my style of leadership. You will then become a successful leader too!"

     Let me advise you DO NOT buy one of these books. The premise is faulty. This is not because these leaders were unsuccessful, quite the contrary, because leadership is not just about the leader. It is about the organization, the timing, the style, and the personality of individual leaders. It is also about the context. When a Natural leader finds or creates the right organization and it fits into the right context, it works! They look like examples to follow. Sadly, few have become successful by following their example and advice. If that were possible, there would be a thousand Joel Osteen - like congregations across North America. For us Episcopalians, we would have hundreds of congregations the size of St. Martin’s, Houston, across Church. I could also mention, for older readers, Bill Hybel’s Willow Creek congregation in Chicago.

    There are several dynamics that make this style of leadership hard to imitate. The first you have already figured out. You are not that person. Next, you are not leading that organization. Further, you are not leading an organization in their context.

     More importantly, an inherent flaw in natural leaders is how little insight they have about their own style and why it works. Add to this, the organization that they use as an example may not work the way they think it does. There is often a gap between what the leader thinks worked and what actually worked.

     At the Leadership Training Institute, we ran weeklong teaching events. The teams were made up of the three leaders from our ministry and one from the outside. This outside person was an outstanding parish leader. That guest leader always gave the initial talk “The Power of Vision.”  When we had an instinctual leader, the talk was essentially, “I have a vision for ministry. It is this.” Then followed the leader’s own vision and examples came from his parish. Those talks were interesting and often inspirational. The talks could easily have ended with an altar call based on “Commit to this vision and follow me!”

     What did the leaders who were like most of the rest of us talk about? They talked about how they discovered God’s vision for the ministry of their congregations and how others could do that. They talked about their failures and what they learned from them. They talked about God’s blessings on the vision. They talked about, how over time, this vision became clear and how they matured. In other words, they helped other leaders learn how to lead better.

     Let me end with two observations about these Natural or Instinctual leaders. First, what happens when what they have always done stops working? Mostly, they keep explaining to their followers why it should work. This involves repeating their intentions and not listening to important feedback. They fail to hear from their leaders about the difference between their intentions and what is really happening. There have been some colossal failures by such leaders. This gap between a leader’s intentions and their actual behavior is a topic I will take up again later.

     My second observation relates to my statement that they are usually unteachable. It is this. Can an instinctual leader continue to learn and grow? My observation is sometimes yes. While I was Director of The Leadership Training Institute, I worked with such a leader on a proposed cooperative venture in ministry. This involved meeting with that leader and his lay leadership. After talking to his leaders, their instinctual clergy leader would always ask something like this, “How are you feeling about this idea? Or “Are you feeling comfortable with it?”

     It was apparent to me that this leader was, in Meyers/Briggs terminology, an ENTJ leader. What struck me was that he would ask such feeling questions. He did not ask what would have been natural to his personality, “What do you think about this idea?” At the end of the visit, I asked him about this. Here is what he told me. “Well Kevin, after being the Rector here for 12 years, I faced a crisis. Finally, I learned that I have to pay attention to my leaders’ feelings. After all, they are not all like me. In fact, few of them are.” Sadly, many instinctual leaders do not learn this valuable lesson, and even if they do, they do not know how to apply that learning.

     Let me ask you. Who are the Natural or Instinctual Leaders you have known in the Church?

 

  

Leaders Understand the Difference between Authority and Leadership Post#4

I want to end this first section on the basics of leaders and leadership by underscoring something seldom mentioned in presentations on leadership but is always present in a community of faith. This is the relationship between authority and leadership. Why is this seldom discussed?

The first reason is that authority remains mostly assumed. Church leadership is made most aware of this when something goes wrong even though a congregation is surrounded by the symbols of authority in the vestments we wear, the scriptures we read, the creeds we profess, and the titles we use.

The second reason is the negative connotation given authority by authoritarian leaders. Authority does not mean the same thing, but it is often confused in the context of the egalitarian nature of American Church culture, even in a denomination with the name “Episcopal.”

I remember dealing with a conflicted vestry and at one point in the emotional tension of the meeting, I tried to lower tension level by saying, “I think if Bishop Payne were here, he would say that the really important thing….” That is as far as I got before I was interrupted by a red-faced angry man who banged the table and said, “What right does Bishop Payne have to tell us what we should do?” At that point, I looked around and most of the leaders including the rector sat staring at the table.  I respond with, “What part of Episcopal did you not understand when you joined this church?” This reference to our authority vested in the diocesan bishop actually empowered some of the vestry to speak up in the face of this attempt at emotional intimidation. As some reason returned to the room, the emotional temperature cooled down. Later I learned that the angry vestry member never returned. That was a good thing for their leadership. Attempting to control things by emotional intimidation is always unhealthy.

To acknowledge this usually unspoken dynamic, I often use the terms “ordained leader” and “lay leaders.” Let me elaborate. Because of our Episcopal and historic Anglican identity, the ordained leader (rector or vicar) has a special role among the leadership. For example, the canons state the right of the rector to preside at vestry meetings. While many episcopal leaders do not know this, the vestry cannot meet without the rector present unless the rector gives permission for that to happen. Some rectors delegate to a warden the job of presiding at vestry meetings. When that has been the custom, I always recommend that before the rector leaves the parish, he or she reclaim that right so that the vestry members are clear that the new rector may choose to function as chair of the meetings. In mission congregations, the above also applies to vicars and bishop’s committees.

Add to this that nothing ends the honeymoon phase of a new rectorship faster than the senior warden informing the new cleric, “In this parish, I chair the vestry meetings!” That is why, by the way, one of the chief functions of an interim is to restore normal operating procedures. All rectors have their quirks, and the transition time is when those should be eliminated and replaced by our regular canonical procedures.

A few times over the years, I have worked with a church where the rector is not a leader and does not take on the “ordained leadership role.” You can guess correctly that such congregations are already dysfunctional by definition. Usually what has happened is that the Rector lost an early struggle with some powerful lay leader or leaders but did not resign. Sadly, the rector accepted a passive role functioning as a kind of chaplain to the community. That leaves the clergy person a not much respected figurehead who functions more like the vicar of a family chapel subject to doing what the “real” leaders want done, like a character out of a bad 18^th century English novel.

On the other hand, when the ordained leader assumes a “father or mother knows best” directive style of leadership, this is authoritarian leadership. Its effect is to create dependency in the congregation and to silence any lay leaders who simply object to a rector’s decisions. Again, this creates dysfunctionality.

When an ordained leader functions in a healthy manner, two good things happen. First, the whole congregation, including the lay leaders, are reminded that the local congregation represents the wider Church and the mission of Jesus in the local community. Second, the ordained leader is the one who holds the policy and procedures of the congregation in place and negates bad behavior on the part of dysfunctional leaders and members. In other words, the ordained leader is most responsible for maintaining clear boundaries.

This authority can also be seen in important functional ways. For example, when I have worked with vestries in writing mission statements, I always interject near the end of the process this guidance, “The Rector gets the last draft of the statement.” When asked why, I point out that the rector will be the one who reminds the congregation of its mission, shares this mission with potential and new members, and l mentions this from time to time in preaching and teaching. I then remind the vestry that if the Rector has to stop to open the bulletin and read the mission statement, it isn’t yet the real mission. The rector has to say it and believe it in a naturally congruent manner.

When ordained leaders function in a healthy manner, the leadership operates in a healthy way. The canons say it this way. The rector and the vestry are responsible together for the mission of the local congregation and are accountable for its organization life and operations. The line that I have heard some rectors inclined toward autocratic behavior wrongly use is, “I am in charge of all things spiritual, and the vestry is responsible for mowing the grass and funding the budget.” Such an attitude undermines the very nature of an “Apostolic Community” in which Jesus is the head and all leaders are servants. 

Let me end by observing that authority becomes most apparent when there is a change and subsequent transition in the ordained leadership. As the team of lay leaders develops their relationship with the new ordained leader, shared responsibility and ownership can become a healthy mark of a healthy congregation.

Note that in communities, authorities are often seen as good or bad. These descriptive words make sense given humanity’s long history of this dynamic. However, they should not be used for leadership. Leadership is either effective or ineffective. In my next posts, I will be turning to what makes for an effective leader.   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

Leaders Need to Maintain a Balance Between Mission and Community Post #3

 

Why this Balance Matters

Over 50 years ago, I attended a “Human Relationship Lab.” I was a senior in seminary, and I had been introduced to these gatherings by one of our professors. The basic premise of the labs was to combine experience in a group with observations about group behavior especially as it related to leadership.

One observation in this session was both simple and profound. It has stayed with me all these years and I have used the principle on many occasions. The facilitator drew on newsprint a straight line and then added two words:

                             Task_____________________Community                                                   

 Here is the rule. Leaders need to tend to two dynamics to maintain a healthy community. The first is task. The second is community life. Simple right? Now comes the profound part. When these dynamics become unbalanced, too focused on task or too focused on community, the group becomes unhealthy. Today we would use the word “dysfunctional.”

Over my years as a Rector, a Canon in a diocese, and a consultant to churches, I have seen lots of dysfunctional behavior in congregations. It often occurs when one of these two dynamics becomes over emphasized. When I observed such churches, I found that the leaders were not attending to this balance and were dealing with issues, not by trying to balance these, but by putting even more energy in their preferred dynamic. As a consultant, I would make recommendations to restore the balance. When applied, this always helped create a healthier community that was better able to accomplish its purpose. When ignored often conflict emerged.

Add to this that each of these two dynamics can be both healthy and unhealthy. For example, take the clergy person who believes the congregation needs to build a new worship space. In order to accomplish this task, it is necessary to raise money. The leader now takes every opportunity to hammer away at the need for people to give. The result is that members start saying things like, “The church is always asking for money.” This complaint is code language for “we are not feeling a part of this community.” Perhaps what was not being attended to was the need for members to fully own the decision. 

Back then, an expression that I used with leaders was that “Baby Boomers and GenXers think that any decision made without them involved, even if seems a good one to the leaders, was bad. That was important because the GI generation mostly trusted their leaders’ decisions, but the boomer generation did not! This generational shift in our society was a major issue for churches in the latter part of the 21st century.

The problem on the other side of the balance, community life, can be seen in several ways. First, the tighter the relationships become, the more difficult it is to include new people. New people see a self-described “friendly congregation,” as often made up of people who stand around at the coffee hour talking to each other while ignoring the visitors.

In the wider Episcopal Church in recent days the emphasis on “The beloved Community” carries that risk. If a group puts all its energy into relationships within the group, it can be unhealthy. In our church, which puts much emphasis on learning to love one another and reconciliation, this emphasis runs the risk of focusing too much on the present group’s relationships. The task then must become balancing our communities with a healthy understanding of the task of making new disciples.

Another example of see too much emphasis on communing is to imagine what happens if one of the leaders of a community comes from a dysfunctional family or is addicted to some substance. Then it is easy for the whole church “family” to become dysfunctional. This is a particular problem in our smaller churches, and we have lots of them. The solution would be balanced by greater emphasis on the church’s task or mission. 

My former Bishop, Claude Payne, underscored this with his description of the Church’s two core values which are The Great Commission to make disciples and The Great Commandment to love one another. He would point out that maintaining a healthy balance between these two core values is a continual work of a congregation’s leadership both ordained and lay.

I would add this observation. A community that puts all its emphasis on itself is best defined as a cult. One that puts too much emphasis on the task is a corporation not a community.

How are your leaders doing at maintaining this healthy balance? What strategies might accomplish this? This model remains a basic tool in developing strategies aimed at health.  

 

 

 

Leaders and Leadership in the Faith Community Post#2

 

Are Leaders Born or Made Leaders?

This question has been debated for years, maybe for as long as we humans have been around. I have read arguments both ways. The problem with this question is twofold.

First, leadership is complex.

Second, this question focuses on leaders apart from groups or communities.

Studies of group behavior by several disciplines have revealed a very interesting dynamic of group life. If you put 100 random people in a room and give them a task or problem to solve, you will observe that about 10% or 10 people will step forward as leaders to help the group accomplish the task or solve the problem.

This dynamic has been observed across cultures, in different organizations, and varying institutions including churches. Approximately 10% of a group will self-differentiate from the group members as leaders.

I have called this series “Leaders and Leadership in Communities of Faith” for a reason. When we talk about leaders in our society, we often focus on individuals. We ask how a particular leader learned to be one or how that leader developed a style of leadership. But the other side of this is about leadership as a function of groups. Many of us who are seen as leaders have found ourselves in groups where a task or problem occurred, and we decided “to remain quiet” and waited for others to lead. And other do emerge. When I use the term leadership, I will be referring to how leadership functions as a dynamic of a group’s life. When I say leader, I will be referring to individuals and how they function as leaders.

Let me stay with leadership for a moment and underscore one of the consistent problems of congregations. Almost all congregations overestimate the number of leaders they have. For example, take a parish with 100 active members. If we take the research above seriously, we realize that this community will have approximately 10 leaders at any moment in time. Notice that they may have 9 to 12 Vestry members. They will also have a director of the altar guild, the ushers, the vergers, and servers. They may have leaders in Christian education and others in outreach. Now you see the problem. They have more leadership roles than they have leaders to fill them. To “mind the gap” as the British would say, there are two typical solutions that are always bad for the health of the community.

The first is to give one person more than one leadership position. I’ve been in congregations where a person has 3to 4 leadership positions. When this happens, they naturally lose focus, and the areas of ministry they lead will suffer.

The Second is to fill leadership positions with non-leaders. Let’s say St. John’s has 9 vestry positions but this year no one wants to serve on the Vestry. Often the nominating committee comes up with the names of helpful and pleasant folks willing to take a position but who are not leaders. That leadership recruitment strategy is called “No one else will do it!” What is wrong with this, you might ask. Nothing if all that is needed is maintenance. But if leadership is needed, the presence of non-leaders restrains the real leaders from doing what needs to be done. The leadership team will suffer because of the inability of those non-leaders to produce as part of the leadership team.

There are many applications to this but let me share one. During my time in the Diocese of Texas, when we had a church in crisis or that needed revitalization, we stepped beyond normal procedures. We placed a new clergy person in the community and then asked the Senior Warden and 5 to 7 members of the Vestry to remain in place for the next 3 years. Once agreed upon by the leaders, there will be no elections or replacements even if someone leaves the congregation. Our plan always worked for the betterment of the community.

Why? I let you ponder that question, but a clue has to do with team solidarity. This also reflects an unintended consequence of term limits for Vestry members. 

Leaders and Leadership in the Faith Community Post #1

 

Leaders Take the Initiative

When I worked for the Diocese of Texas, I met with parish leaders in a congregation in crisis. Their Rector had recently left after a year of conflict with the lay leadership. The giving had fallen off and then suddenly the HAV system died. They asked for help and Bishop Payne sent me to meet with them.

For the past few years, this congregation’s representatives to the Diocesan Council had at the beginning of Council asked to be allowed to be seated even though they had not paid their Diocesan assessment for the past year. Texas had two assessments. The first covered the administrative costs of the bishop and his office and paying this was mandatory. If a parish did not pay this basic assessment, they were denied seating, voice, and vote at that Council. The second asking was for support of Diocesan programs and was more voluntary.

A congregation’s delegation could petition at the beginning of Council to suspend the requirement for that year and forgive the payment of the first assessment. This almost always passed because the other parishes recognized that congregations did at times face a crisis and nothing was gained by denying their participation. This particular congregation had used the action several years running and the Bishop did not want this pattern repeated.

After I was welcomed, the Senior Warden announced that Canon Martin had news to share. I smiled and said, “Actually, I have good news and bad news. The good news is that the Bishop has arranged for a grant to solve the approximately $20,000 in needed repairs.” I then paused and added, “The bad news is the grant is dependent on your paying your full assessment for this past year.” With that announcement, I paused and waited.

Immediately the room erupted with objections. Several asked how the Bishop could be “so unchristian” as to demand this knowing how strapped the parish was financially. Finally, one person said, “There is no way that we can manage this financially.”  After another pause, I said, “I know a way to do it.”

I then asked, “Is the treasurer here tonight?” A man across from me nodded and responded, “I am.” I asked how much the assessment was for last year. He told me and I then said, “There are 11 of us in this room including me. If you divide the assessment by 11, how much is that?” He pulled out his calculator and punched in the numbers. Then announced, “$68.75 each.” I pulled out my check book while explaining that as a diocesan staff member, I was a part of their leadership. I wrote out a check for the $68.75 amount while adding, “Not everyone in this room may be able to give that exact amount, but some can give more.” I put my check down on the table.

There was dead silence. Finally, an older woman opened her purse and took out two $20 dollar bills. “This is from my tips at work,” she added. She put these down on top of my check. Another long pause followed. Then a vestry member sitting near me put his hand over the check and cash and said, “Canon Martin, I personally guarantee that we will send a check to the Diocese tomorrow for the full assessment. Several other smiled and nodded.  I responded, “Great.” After a further conversation about their needs, I said good night and left. I knew we would get their payment and that there would be no further requests from this congregation for the Council to suspend the requirement that their Assessment be paid.

What marks a leader from a follower?

When a problem or crisis arises in a community, the non-leaders complain and wring their hands indicating they don’t know what to do. The leaders step forward and take the initiative to find a solution. That woman with her $40 dollars was one. And the gentlemen who told me he guaranteed the assessment would be paid was another. Simply said, a leader takes the initiative when others won’t or can’t.

In my next blog, I will explore the question of whether leaders are born, or they learn how to become one.