Monday, January 29, 2024

Learning to do Evangelism


After my ordination, I quickly found that my seminary training had not prepared me for leading a parish It had left me spiritually bereft in dealing with a troubled and difficult parish. The Good News in this was that it left me open to a moment of spiritual renewal. This motivated me to learn more about ministry in the power of the Holy Spirit.

I attended an ecumenical conference in Tulsa, and this ended with a group of five younger Episcopal clergy having dinner with the Rev. Robert Harvey. He was an older priest who led a vital and vibrant congregation. During our meal, we asked him a number of questions about leading a renewal of a congregation. After several questions about how to do this, he stopped us and asked an important question. “How many of you have done evangelism either in your church or among non-churched people?” After a long silence, he suggested that all of us learn how to do evangelism and recommended several places where we could learn this skill. We knew he was right.

This led me to call the New England headquarters of Campus Crusade for Christ. It was a hard thing to do. I knew the organization had a strong fundamentalist and evangelical core, but I was willing to sign up for their next “Disciple Making Seminar.” I arrived at the two day event not knowing what to expect. I was stunned to discover that the other participants were all college students. With my clerical collar, I stood out from the group.  I told myself that I might learn something and to just listen.

The first day was spent introducing us to their standard evangelism tool. It is called “The Four Spiritual Laws” and was intended to be used one on one.  The teacher was engaging, but I found myself put off by the simplicity of the four spiritual laws. Essentially, the four laws are (1) God created us and loves us, (2) We have sinned and rebelled against God as sinners, (3) Jesus repaired the gap between us and God by his death on a Cross. (4) We can be reconciled to God by accepting Jesus’ death for us, confessing that we are sinners, and repeating the disciples’ prayer. At the end of the day, I remember thinking “that’s it? That is evangelism?”

Of course, my mainline theological education gave me grave doubts about all this, and the next day I was not prepared for our assignment. We were divided into groups of two and told to go out to a public place and share the booklet with someone. Our approach was to ask, “Have you ever heard of the Four Spiritual Laws?” If the answer was no, we were then to offer to share them by way of the booklet with its simple illustrations.  Thank God, my paired student seemed eager, and I was glad to let him take the lead.

We ended up at a laundromat. There were just a few people and the only one alone was a young man in his middle twenties. I nodded encouragement to the student, and he smiled and said, “Since you’re a pastor, why don’t you show me how to do this.” He added that “I will be praying for you both.” I was not wearing my clericals, dressed casually, but I knew that despite my reluctance, there was no way out. 

I approached the young man, introduced myself, and said “Have you ever heard of the four spiritual laws?  He looked curious and said, “No, what are they?” I proceeded to walk through the booklet with him explaining each law. Occasionally, he would nod and look thoughtful. Finally, we reached the end, and I asked THE question. Would you like to accept Jesus and say this disciple prayer? He thought for a few moments and responded, “Yes, I would.” I could see my partner smiling. So, surprised, I said the only thing I could like of, “Why in the world would you want to do that?”

I could not believe that anyone would respond to such a basic presentation, and I genuinely wanted to know why he did. At first, he simply said, “Hey, you are the one who shared this with me!” I pulled myself together and seeing the panic on my partner’s face, I simply asked, “What made you want to say yes? I will never forget his response.

“Well, I’ve heard about Jesus, of course, even attended a few churches over the years, but no one has ever explained this before. I could understand it, and I wanted to say yes.” So, I read, and he repeated the sinner’s prayer and his commitment to follow Christ.  After I suggested that he follow up by finding a church or Christian fellowship. I gave him the booklet and he smiled and thanked me. As we left, he was reading it over carefully.

Later that day, we regrouped and shared our experience in trying to share Christ with others. A few also found a person who, after a few questions, agreed to say the prayer. Fortunately for me, the instructor had my partner share what had happened with us. He did share about my asking why my person wanted to pray, and then went on to share the young man’s response. 

I went home with a bag full of Four Spiritual Laws booklets and a lot of things to think about. I kept thinking about the young man’s honest answer to me. No one has ever explained this to me in a way that I could understand it. I realized that all my theological training and experience in the ministry had left me incapable of sharing the heart of the gospel in a clear and simple way that led to an invitation to respond to God’s gift in Christ.

I also learned the importance of intentionally in trying to share this message. I would now say that evangelism is to intentionally share the good news of Christ with another person or persons, and to invite that person to respond to that message. The role of intentionality struck me. Neither was I trying to argue with someone or to try to intellectually convince them that Christianity was true. I was intentionally trying to share the good news with another.

A lot happened after that. I found other ways to intentionally do this. And I found a more personal way that felt more congruent with me. In my next parish, I started my ministry by preaching the Gospel in such a way that I offered to my congregation a chance to personally respond to the message. To my surprise, a number of longstanding members of TEC responded and I prayed with them as they made such a decision. A mentor taught me during all this to “never assume that a church member has made a commitment to Christ unless you hear them say that they had.” Note that my mentor did not say that I should assume that someone had not made that decision and judge others. He said do not assume they had.

I later learned how to equipe members of my congregations to be able to say that they had come to Christ and to invite others to also do so. That will be my next blog. For now, remember this. Evangelism involves an intention to share. Many times, over the years, I have prayed that God would give me the opportunity to share the faith with another, but I realized that even if that happened, I would have to be prepared to do it and know what I intended.

Imagine a whole congregation praying, “Oh Lord, give me the opportunity to share my faith with others and wisdom to intentionally do this when the moment arises.” I have further learned evangelism is the Spirit’s work and that God is the great evangelist longing to win the world to God’s own self but has left the message with us to share. 

Let me close with this story. When Jesus ascended to heaven after the resurrection, a group of Angels gathered around him and asked, “Lord, how are you now going to win the over the world.” Jesus, responded with, “I have commissioned my disciples to do this work.” The Angels looked at each other and one finally said, “Lord, what’s your plan B? You know how humans are.”

Jesus answered, “There is no plan B.”

In my next blog, I will share how I equipped others to do this work both in my parishes and in workshops in numerous other congregations.

 

 

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